Think Possible Make It Possible

What if one day you wake, and you receive a message that tells you that you have in fact been going about life the wrong way and that your belief system has set you back a few years what would you do? This was the kind of experience I had this weekend I was hit with a reality check of what I knew versus what I did not know, in fact I also learned that the things I did not know where the things I needed to get familiar with. The very undeniable fact in life is that it is not about what you have, it is not about what you know, or what you have been through it is simply about your willingness to change when it is necessary. The problem most of us have faced is the choice of fear, we choose to fear the unknown and continue to trust the things we do know but are not rewarding to us at all.  When we choose to live in fear we choose to settle and remain the same. Our mindset contributes this way of thinking and acting somehow, we believe in the valid and limited excuses we give ourselves. This leads me to this question would you be willing to change your belief system, forgetting what you do know that does not work and committed to learning what you do not know and making it work would you?

The reason why the answer to that question by most would be no is simply because we are so consumed by the know it all syndrome, but if you know it all then there is no room for growth. The moment we stop learning is the moment we stop growing. Fortunately for us the moment we choose to change we can all learn and grow to understand the true value of time, the true benefits of taking risks and being educated on what you do not know. Living the life, we desire does not come through comfort we have to go through the labor process in order to give life in pure manifestation. We are the only thing that stops us from living and creating we have too many excuses and we know all the answers as to why something will not work and no facts on how it all could work. The main reason why change can be difficult sometimes is determined by our circle of influence, our circle of influence are usually our close family, friends, or significant others. It is ok to keep achieving success in silence by simply eliminating all the negative energy by outside influence and go with what you truly believe and see possible for your life.  

Today in this present moment is the only time we have access to, with only twenty-four hours in a day and seven days a week we cannot afford to waste time. Your life is what you choose if you choose comfort and fear your life will reflect just that, if you choose risk and faith the results of your life will reflect that. The best option to have is have no option but to rise above our current circumstances, the ball is in your court you can either analyze the situation, focus, then dribble all the way to the basket. Or you can choose to stand undecided, not focused, and pass up opportunities that could make a difference to not only your life but to the people that you love the most. If you have a vision for your life now is the time to allow yourself to run free in it release all limiting beliefs in order to elevate your mind and rise to the occasion. True success and happiness are possible if you choose it and failure and regret is possible if you continue to accept less than what you deserve.  There are no short cuts in life, but you do limit your chances of living in regret when you open your mind and your heart to new, risky, and exciting opportunities daily.  You are what you think, and you do what you believe, I dare you to write yourself a new script and a new action plan to living an unapologetic happy and successful life.

“The Beauty About What You Don’t Know,
Is The Possibility That It Just Might Work.”

Open Mind

Have you ever taken a second to listen to a complete stranger’s story about their life and what they have overcame to get where they are today? This may seem very strange and a usual to most but what I have learned is the more I set my intentions on connecting with complete strangers the more enlightened I am and filled with pure gratitude for my life even the obstacles I have faced. Meaningful conversations require great listening skills and with listening to understand and learn the information you receive could change your life for the better. I learned some of the most valuable lessons just from starting a conversation with a stranger, I learned that there are people that just needs someone to listen to their story. I have learned and confirmed that you cannot judge a book by the cover, and most importantly everyone has a story and by listening we allow our selves to be present to receive a blessing. why is it a blessing?  because hearing  other people’s stories helps me feel appreciative and grateful for my life and what I have been through. It allows me to get present to the fact that it could have been worse and that the things we may see as a setback or a problem there is someone out there that would be glad to have just that.

The shift of the mind is very beneficial to life because when you change your thoughts you change your attitude and your actions will align.  Growing up truthfully speaking I will admit that I was a dedicated complainer growing up, every opportunity that presented itself I had something to complain about.  It was the practice of connecting with people outside of my comfort zone and learning their truths is when I began to practice gratitude over negative attitude. That was the best transition I could have ever took on I learned to invest a lot of time being present and reflective on my life and what truly matters. Accepting what I don’t gave and making the most out of what I do have.  The more we listen the more we learn the more we can apply change to who we are being, I believe one of the greatest secrets to living a happy and successful life is having an attitude of gratitude always. Being grateful for everything and everyone no matter how big or small the reward or the obstacle is, every little step count they add height to the ladder of success. I believe that questions are meant to be asked, lessons are meant to be learned asking the right question at the right time could change your life.

“If You Don’t Go Through Life With An Open Mind , You Will Find A lot Of Closed Doors.”

Receiving love and support is not limited to only the people you have known your entire life, be open to new connections, new questions, and new lessons. Changing your perspective having an open mind and having love and compassion for even strangers is not so abnormal as we were taught. Believe that everything and everyone that you encounter has a purpose and a reason it is up to us choose to take advantage of every opportunity or be distracted by our thoughts and create logic reasoning to remain quiet. One of the most unrewarding things we can do in life Is be too prideful or lacking confidence to make the necessary connections in our life. For growth to take place there is a level of discomfort we must experience in order to produce new results, expand your mind, and open your heart to every opportunity and experience.  My advice to everyone reading today is the next time you are thinking about complaining about your life, ask a stranger; what is your story? Make connections that will make you think twice and choose gratitude over complaint. Life can be as amazing as you make, or it could be as limited as your thoughts. Changing our perspective and having an open mind unlocks the door to experiencing new and exciting opportunities choose to evolve into your purpose by choosing gratitude and love.

Experiment , Experience , And Excel

There is a burning desire inside of each and everyone of us that shows up in our life where we dream about the what if’s, what If I do something different outside of our comfort zone and what if it works. The reality there is endless possibilities around for each and everyone of us to explore and conquer, but naturally there are many factors that plays a big role in keeping us away from our true purpose. The first and most intimidating one is the fear, the fear of failing, the fear of what other people will think, and fear of not having the confidence to commit. One of the factors I believe plays a huge part in us settling   is due to the external forces, opinions, suggestions, concerns, instructions coming from some of the most important people in our lives. The reality is your vision is yours to create and live it is not for anyone else to give a stamp of approval, what God blesses no man can curse, change, or rob us of.  The ability to trust yourself believing that you already have what you need within, the moment you give yourself permission to create is the moment you begin to operate from your true space.

There is fact in the law of attraction however I do believe optimism without true faith, daily action or routine you will attract nothing.  It is ok to dream but dream with your eyes wide open, seeking clarity and developing the confidence to actively live each day being present to what Is but staying in alignment with your vision for your life. I started my business two years now and I will say I can remember procrastinating a lot, lacking confidence, lack of clarity, and a lot of valid excuses. Finance was the number one excuse for me being a new stay at home mother and wife there was one income in our home. I share this to say it was a very valid excuse and what my reality was, but I developed the courage to ask myself what if I take a leap of faith and it works, what if I do not allow my financial circumstances to limit my vision and my ability to bring my dreams to reality.  I took that energy and I looked up all the simple most effective ways to get started, I firmly believe that where there is a will there is a way the question Is how willing you are to make a way. I tuned into my weakness I always labeled myself as not being a creative person, stepping out of my comfort zone using my social media to promote myself daily cost me nothing but time and commitment. I used Google.com to create a free blog site to share my words until I was able to create my very own website.  I started my free blog site December 5, 2017 by the month of March 2018 I had my very own website created.

I share this not for acknowledgement but simply to inspire a beautiful soul that has been stagnant because of what their current circumstances are that you can make a way if you are willing to commit no matter what.  It all begins with a choice you can either choose to keep doing the same things that’s always not been working but expecting a new result, or you can choose to have faith in what you are deserving of. The only way to connect Is to spiritually get connected to God on an intimate level to understand just how unconditional Gods love is. If we make it a priority to invest time with God and trust his word God will provide and make what he see’s fitting for our life possible. Money and the approval of others are the top two dream killers if we allow them, with a great amount of faith the right mindset and determination doors will open when you knock. Do not continue to give your self-permission to remain settled in misery and a lifetime of regret instead I encourage you to give your self-permission to excel and soar. Pray, faith, and action let’s try that and see how your life can transform like you never even imagined. Our past does not determine our future neither does it limit our ability to be extraordinary beings in this life we all matter, and we all were created to leave a legacy, that provides hope and inspiration for generations to come.

“Take The Risk ,
Appreciate The Experience ,
And Excel.”

When One Door Closes Purpose Is Present

“When One Door Closes, Another Opens : But We Often Look So Long And So Regretfully Upon The Closed Door That We Do Not See The One Which Has opened For Us.”

When one door closes many will open, that is a saying that I am sure we have all heard more than once in our life on multiple different experiences, but do we really understand it, or do we say it with expectation or faith?  There is power in our words but there Is much more power in having faith behind the words we say, everything we want in life begins with prayer, faith, and action in that order. Without faith we lack confidence, self-worth, and unsure of our place in this world there is a conflict within about what we do deserve. The beauty about God’s love is that it is unconditional, and he loves us despite the path and mistakes we make along the way which he already knew, but his purpose and promise is unwavering it is up to us to know when to let go and allow him to take lead. It does not matter what our circumstances and how bad you feel you have been, no one is less deserving of God’s love the real test is learning to accept your past for what it is, understanding that the past is a temporary moment of self-reflection and allow growth to happen.  The reality is a lot of the times we are busy fighting to hold on to things that God is trying to remove not to harm or hinder us but to elevate and move us in the direction he needs us to go.

Over the last two years this is the first time in my life I have fully understood what It means to trust God and let go the urge to want to control the events in my life that were simply out of my control. There has been a series of doors opening and doors closing and each time I go through moments of doubt and fear. In those moments I have learned to not react but embrace what is right now focus on what I do have control over which is my mind, instead of creating stories I focus only on gratitude. I would take a second to reflect on all the things that are going right in my life and how can I stay active in my purpose without being shaken. One of the most rewarded shifts has been my growing faith being patient but remaining focused on my goals and just how far I have come I have confidence that I was not brought this far just to be left to hang. I give myself no other options but to keep going there is no way around it I must face my trials and grow through them as I am aware that for every new level there are new tests and a new level of strength that is required.  The question I had to ask my self was “are you willing and ready to fight for your purpose, are you prepared to give all even when it seems too hard.  The answer I found came from within I made the choice to focus on fear, the fear of giving up and never making my dreams a reality.

Today I ask this question to everyone reading are you ready to fight for your purpose, are you ready to give your all or nothing at all? Life is always happening are you prepared to keep going for what you love or are you prepared to settle with the sour taste of regret for the rest of your life, with the never-ending question of what if I just kept going?  A life filled with regret is more   painful that scars from fighting to create a life you love and deserve. The choice is yours but remember anything in life worth having is worth fighting for you choose which fight are you prepared to take on. The best advice I can give to everyone Is to remember to choose happiness within first, always choose to be grateful over ungrateful and always remember your purpose is a gift from God to be used for something bigger than you. Give yourself permission to be great, the less control you allow people to have over your vision by seeking approval, what you have is a gift from God which needs no correction or approval from anyone. Work with what you have now and create what you deserve but never settle with what does not make you happy or grants you peace and fulfilment.  When one door closes your purpose will come alive are you ready to be unapologetic about life?

Take The First Step

I always wondered why is that we are always open to complaining but remaining in situations that makes us unhappy and limits our ability to operate as our best self. “We are the greatest thing that will ever happen to us. Believe it, it makes life much easier” -Melody Beattie, one of the reasons I have learned from my own experience was that I settled because it was easier to complain without making the necessary changes.  The truth is we do not spend enough time appreciating ourselves and loving all that we already have, instead we are busy pointing out what we consider to be our flaws and things we do not have.  What we think is what we believe about ourselves if it is too hard to make a change then what we are simply saying is that we do not deserve better, that we are not worth the challenge. We should believe none of what we hear, half of what we see, and none of the self-defeating tales we tell ourselves. Everything we experience is our life is not defining to our worth and what we deserve, it is simply a chapter in our life that requires tests to move on to the next level. Where there is life there is always something new to learn and challenges to face and overcome, the strength we need to succeed in everything we face is on the other side of fear.

There are a lot of times in life where I believe we all do not give ourselves enough credit we get so caught up in comparing ourselves to others without feeling inspired instead we compare and talk down to ourselves. The people we idolize and compare ourselves do not possess any supernatural powers that we lack, they made a choice to tap into faith. When you believe that God’s love is greater than your fear, you develop a sense of confidence that you are capable and more than deserving of living a whole life filled with love and prosperity, but you must choose to create it. Prayer without work is dead, and prayer without faith is an act of asking in vain, you must pray with expectation that God is going to provide what is best for us and remove what is not, our duty is to worry about nothing and enjoy the journey. Trust the process by being open to all things and be attached to nothing, allow yourselves to be used to move touch and inspire someone to recognize their strength to get started. There is a saying that goes you never forget where you are coming from remain humble and never be to high up you forget to share just what it took to get where you are.

Everyone can admire your success, but people will appreciate your journey your openness to share the ups, the middle, and the lows, life is always happening the question is are you ready to ride through the storms for what you deserve.  In God’s grand design he took time to create each and everyone of us from his image and shelters us with his love and protection, and if God is for us then who and what can stand against us? no one. The next time you find yourself questioning your ability to change what you do not like in your life look in the mirror and appreciate that God made you unique and you have something to offer. Feeling fear is normal but acting through that is key you will find out just what you were missing was already within, set your sights only on what you desire and be open to all the bumps and road blocks that will come  your way know that they are just a part  of the stair case to success.  Climb them proud with your heads held high, your faith, and focus the race is not only for the swift but who can endure, it is hard to win, and it is hard to lose you decide what challenge you want to take on.

“One Step At A Time., One Day At A Time.”