Choosing You

The most important things to have in life is self-love, self- confidence, self-respect, self-motivation, be your biggest supporter and your number one cheerleader. The moment you leave those qualities up to friends, family, or a significant other to fulfil is where your down fall begins. This is a fact simply because no matter what connection you believe you have with people no one will show up for you more than you show up for yourself. Having high expectations will only lead to major disappointments and hurt because we placed our ability to thrive up to who we expect to be there and where we are in life. We are not created to just survive and exists the ability to thrive all comes down to the choice to choose you and commit to a lifestyle that is beneficial to your true purpose in life. The journey is long, and the road gets lonely and in the dark is where we find strength, find the strength to focus on the love for your vision of life.  By being self-motivated you do not need the voice or company of any one to move forward, being confident is key to promote yourself.

The relationships we have in our lives are personal our dreams are our purpose stop mixing the two, I have learned the farther apart you keep the two the less complicated relationships are. It is just as the saying goes never mix business with pleasure, I say never mix purpose and pleasure. We must focus on who needs what we have to offer and how important is it for us to achieve our grandest vision for our life. Like the Bishop T.D. Jakes says you have three types of people in your life, but the confidant is who you should stay closest to, everyone else is temporary and only there for their own personal benefit. Once that need is met or if you are unable to fulfil that you no longer are an important factor in their life, this is our responsibility to identify who those people are and act according to their role. The universe is always working for us we are the ones that choose to ignore the signs and silence our intuition because we are caught up in what we want people to be instead of accepting the things that they are not.

“Loving Ourselves Works Miracles In Our Lives.”

The fact of life always comes down to who we are to ourselves and what we allow outside forces to dictate, when we are the ones responsible for the life we create, the things, and people we attract.  Everything is all about choice believe it or not everything that we face in life all began with a choice we made that created a ripple effect of results good or bad. Choosing to do what we feel over doing what we think looks good, or benefits others is key because there is no sense in sacrificing your own peace and happiness for others.  Always be sure to operate from true self a space where we are not lacking or needing anything or anyone, pay attention take notes and move in silence. What we already know does not need confrontation or confirmation you simply continue to love and allow the law of attraction to work in your favor when you focus on all good possibilities and not your present short comings.  I encourage everyone reading today to take a mental note of the people you place expectations how do they show up for themselves, it is impossible to expect to receive anything from anyone that is incapable of giving to themselves. No one can give what they do not have it is not personal it is just a part of life’s journey.

Unapologetic Words Of Courage-Do A New Thing

If what you always have been doing is constantly leading you to the same results. It is time to detach from what you are used to and take on the things you need to do to create a new result.

New solves all

Spiritual Beings

“You have to grow from the inside, no one can teach you, no one can make you spiritual, there is no other teacher but your own soul.” Many times, people confuse spirituality to be defined under a specific religion of practice, I too believed that every time I heard the word spirituality it was religion based.  This is not something any one should be embarrassed or ashamed of simply because we are spiritual beings that along our journey were taught things that separates us from our true selves. We were given names and groups to choose from to which we identified ourselves as, and along with that we developed the need to judge and separate ourselves from others based on practice. We are all one we all came into this world by birth and we will leave by death, the only thing that separates us is time and distance if we allow it.  We are all divine and unique people connected through creation, where love is the key to all things and what makes life worth living.

“We Are Unceasing spiritual Beings With An Eternal Destiny In God’s Great Universe. ”

Many people believe that healing and peace is created externally we cannot find peace or search for healing outside of ourselves we must find them internally.  There is no time stamp on when to begin your journey of spiritual growth, but it is the only way to elevate and vibrate higher. To unlock your true potential, you must take on the art of dying while you are alive and detaching physically to connect spiritually.  After all we are all spirits having a human body experience being present spiritually is to become limitless and aiming to reach our highest potential. Fitness and clean eating are the two areas I am really disciplined in which is extremely important, but I began to feel like I needed to dig a little deeper than what was visible. I felt a shift in my energy and I learned that the only way I could truly maintain peace and the ability to remain grounded is through spiritual growth. During the summer I attended a few yoga sessions and I also begin listening to a lot of meditation audio’s which I fell in love with.

I fell in love with the sensation of peace, being able to silence my mind and becoming one with myself and God, I no longer was feeling the need to beat myself up about missing church on Sundays. I always felt like the only way I would be a good Christian/spiritual individual was if I was attending church regularly, I love being in the house of God I grew up in church. I Learned that church was just a building and God’s presence is every where and that it is equally important to build and intimate relationship with God on your own.  I share this to say that life is about loving all things in creation, finding the lesson in all experiences, and connecting and building a relationship with God.  Life is a simple, magical blessing and everyone is on their own unique journey that is meant to lead us to our purpose in life. Invest more time smiling when we rise each day, having a heart of gratitude, setting our intentions on being the best version of ourselves and being a light and a blessing to many unapologetically.

Transformation Of The Mind Tuesday- Lifestyle >Temporary Fix

It is easy to take on things that everyone is doing or something that looks fun but if you plan to be great and remain consistent it is important to identify your why.Why you do something is the reason you stay committed , if your why doesn't push you , you must dig a little deeper. Your ability to commit is all up to how much achieving this goal means to you.

Dig deep

find your why

Take action

Life Detox

The people, and experiences we have in life is a reflection of ourselves we attract who we are. The law of attraction is the ability to attract into our lives whatever we are focusing on, if you were to take a second to analyze your life in this present moment do you like everything you see? This may be a hard pillow for most to swallow but believe it or not everything you have is everything you have attracted by the thoughts you are having, things you are focused on, and who you are being. The irony is most people will always say things such as I always get the same kind of friends, men or women, but really, we chose them, it is the same as saying you have a type meaning that you are attracted to a specific type. your type can be based off physical appearance, status, shape, height, you name the list goes on. Until we are able and willing to take responsibility for how we have created our reality with our thoughts, we will never be able to grow or change the things we are not happy with.

How do I change the things that I attract? a common question for most, there are many ways but the first and most important one I believe is changing your perspective on life.  The way perceive things is what becomes our reality, secondly not focusing on all the things you do not want for your life and focus on all that you desire. Why? simple what you think about is what directs your energy, so if you are having negative thoughts, you will develop negative emotions, and in a negative emotional state we have no desire to create.  Creativity can only flow when we are not in negative state of mind, the goal is to always make sure your intentions are pure, and your spirit is calm. Always be mindful that what we put out is what we receive and what we allow is what will continue, so if we are surrounded by people that are toxic, they reflect our thoughts of ourselves and how we treat ourselves.

“Eliminate What Does Not Help You Evolve.”

 We cannot expect from others what we do not give to ourselves, I am a firm believer that people will only do what you allow and how you treat yourself.  The amount of love, respect, and happiness you want in your life will only be present the moment you begin to offer these gifts to yourself.  If that means separating yourself from toxic relationships whether it is family, friends, or significant other if there is no room to thrive you must remove yourself. Removing yourself without grudge or malice, just making a choice to be in control of how your life will flow.  Investing more time into fueling your mind, body, and spirit equally, not being afraid of becoming one with yourself.  In order to live and grow you must be present and mindful of who you are being at all times. and allowing the higher power to guide you. The only way to hear is to be in silence, have an open mind to everything but be attached to nothing, cleansing your soul daily is key. Focus on peace, love, and healing of the mind and you will attract all that is peaceful, loving and refreshing to you.