Command The Day

“Command The Day
With Confidence , And Faith ”

“Command your day and demand nothing but positivity and love from the universe”, when I think about starting each day that Is one of the many thoughts and desires I have. I set my intentions that each day I will rise and create the kind of day I desire and deserve, I am a firm believer that what you put out is what you will receive and that which you think about is what will manifest. So, I am asking everyone how are you commanding the most out of your day demanding what you want to attract? The beauty about life is it can be as simple as we allow it to be and it can also be as complicated as we make it to be. How are you going into each day, what are the thoughts you have, what are some of your expectations and how are you planning to be in alignment with the things you truly want. Refrain from leaving your days unplanned and up to chance with no confidence in what you are capable of, tap into the boss woman or man that lives within.

I strongly encourage to have some nonnegotiable’s in your life, some things that are a must do before committing to anything else.  The first step in commanding my is my spirituality most people associate that to mean a specific religion. My spirituality is time spent in silence connecting with my inner peace and the divine creator, by being in gratitude and making a committing to being engaged in mediation of my heart and mind. This is very key I consider this to be my way of setting the tone for the type of day I desire and the type of energy I want to attract. The commitment to  this daily grew gradually easy it is the tests that come  with  commanding your day that is the real challenge. Why because you will be faced with things that gives you every excuse to want to give in and forget your mission statement for the day. Adversities are only, meant to teach us something about ourselves and what areas we need to work on, not to break us. Setting the tone for your day does not mean you are going to have a perfect day it simply means asking the universe to guide and provide you with the knowledge to win the day.

Another key concept on how I command   a winning day for myself Is by breaking my day down into specific time slots and writing it all out in my planner the night before.  By doing this I can keep my mind on track to be in action and effective with my mission, leaving each day to maybe or maybe not is only a self-defeating concept. If you have no plan you have no idea on how to master the day and getting things done.   This leaves room for procrastination and   distraction in all areas, at the end of the day how will you feel without every taking action to getting one step closer to bringing your dreams to reality.  The days that I may have been too tired the night before the struggles I face is a feeling of being unsure of what my goal or game plan is for the day. What that looks like is me doing being busy work with no results produced because I was busy not productive. To be effective and productive we must be clear, open, and intentional with commanding your day and receiving the energy you are putting out into the universe.  I challenge you all to connect with your spirituality and plan to win in all areas of your life each day.

Transformation Of The Mind Tuesday- Explore Your True Desires

Let go of all that you have grown attached to and reconnect with your source , your true self and desires is waiting to be explored. Rules and expectations from others limits us, being and Connecting with our true desires is the foundation to true success and happiness. Go on explore your true self .

Solution Creator

Are you a problem solver or a solution-oriented individual? problem solving is much more complicated and takes way too much energy especially when focused on the things you have no control over. What if we invested more time in becoming solution oriented, meaning knowing and accepting what the situation is but choose to focus only on how to move forward to elevate. Problem solving can sometimes become dwelling because to solve a problem you must spend time analyzing the problem and going over the details multiple times before concluding. If we were to take some time to calculate how much time we have lost trying to fix where the damage is already done we will learn that was more than enough time that we could have set our intentions on creating a new result. If can we develop the mindset and skill to get over situations in the same moment that they happen the more time we will have to recreate limitless possibilities. If at first you fail there is always room to try again, take on the process of elimination, okay this way was not a success what can I do different, do more of, or less of to get the results we are aiming for.

I have found it very puzzling that most people spend every moment regretting things and constantly dwelling on areas in their life they consider to be not successful.  A failed attempt is not a failure it is getting the knowledge of what works and what does not a simple opportunity to collect information and experience.  The more we learn is the more experience we must take on future obstacles that may be even bigger than the last one.  What I believe most people forget and even me sometimes is the one fact that life is always happening adversities are always going to come our way, what matters is our perception of the situation. Meaning if we view our obstacles as another blessing in disguise, what that does is create an open mindset that if there is a bump along the way we are instantly looking to find the lesson. Finding the lesson that we needed to progress to the next step.  Always keep in mind for every new level there is a new level of challenges to face if you are not being challenged then you are simply not growing.

I want to encourage everyone to take on something that I have read about and learned from personal experiences that has been very beneficial and life changing. Seeing nothing as a problem and believing that everything that happens is meant to guide us not break us, know that we have the power to decide how we control the situations.  Problems do not exist problems are created through our thoughts and the way we perceive things; the moment challenges are present we tend to take them personal and make them mean something about us.  The first step to becoming solution oriented is first being open to all possibilities, secondly not taking anything personal, and lastly   see nothing as a problem only see opportunities and room from growth.  At first the thought of growth always seems very challenging the key to committing is when we change our mindset to develop a no matter attitude. What that looks like is each day setting our intentions for the day with a whole lot of action to get the job done. Be apart of the solution and not the problem creator or wasting time being busy solving problems that were self-creating, focus only taking the necessary actions to go forward.

“Focus Only On The Solution ”

Unaplogetic Love & Success

Is it possible to have love and success all together?  I strongly believe that we are all capable of having success in all areas of our life.  It is attainable if you invest time in becoming successful in self-love, self-care, and committing to your mind body and spirit. In our world today, most people have lost the true essence of what is important and the key to creating the life we truly desire. What has happened is we have been taught that to live a successful life means to chase more, chasing the big careers, degrees, and titles.  The more we chase things the more we lose our essence, our true value are lost and having becomes more important that being the things we possess is what defines us. The more money you have does not buy you happiness, does grant you peace, and it most definitely does not buy you love.  Some of the richest people in the world have everything they could ever want but the things they truly desire seems nonexistent.

The goal in life for everyone should be to be truly happy with you and falling in love with a purpose and sharing it with the world.  The secret to having success and love is when two whole individuals come together and create a new life together supporting each other on their visions for life. When it comes to love and success most people believe they must choose one or the other.  Other times people are given an ultimatum by the person they are with to choose between your dreams or them.  We should never have to lose ourselves to keep a relationship, doing that will always only leave us filled with resentment and regret.  If the person you are with is unable to stand next to you as your equal partner in life without feeling intimidated by your dreams and drive for life then that may not be the person for you.  There are times where balancing a career and a love life can be challenging if you are unable to prioritize your time that benefits your career and personal life.

The key to prioritizing your time is being completely focus and engaged in each area a hundred percent when it is time to work you are fully invested in work. When you are relaxing and having quality time your partner be a hundred percent invested in that moment with each other. Also make sure to be in tuned with what is going on with each other in career, how they are feeling and how can you be involved being invested in their vision as well. I absolutely love and cherish the relationship that my husband and I have created being able to work together and support each other and still maintain a balance between our personal life. We understand that we are together as two equally whole individuals creating a life together, being invested in making sure we both have time to take care of ourselves first.  To be able to continue to give love and support to each other and everyone else in our lives. I advise everyone to never get to stuck on what the world says a happy relationship or a successful life should look like.  True success comes from within when what you can create, and who you are being brings you complete fulfillment and joy. Be You, love freely, and dream unapologetically.

“Live, Love , Create All That You Were Created To Do ”

Creative Communication

It is not what you say it is how you say it and how you show up for people that makes a great difference. Invest time in listening and understanding the people in your life , it is easy to listen to respond . It is more beneficial for both when you listen to understand and give love and advice when neccessary authentically.