Your Purpose Beats within

“Do not die with your music still inside of you”, last week Thursday while listening to a motivational lecture online this was a quote said by Dr. Wayne Dyer. When I heard it the first time had to me replay it not because I did not understand it but because it gave me chills. The thought of me not doing what I love and living in my purpose or in his words dying with my music still in me would break my own heart. It also gave me chills because I often hear stories of people and I know a few people that have so much inside of them but have settled into the roles of life they feel they are assigned to. They are excellent mothers, have great careers, devoted wife, but if you had a moment to sit and listen to their stories you will find there is something missing deep within, there is a light that has been dimmed. If you talk to them long enough you will hear the stories of all the things they once loved and never had a chance to complete or pursue. It is when discussing these things, you can see the twinkle in their eyes and see their light shine just from talking about it.

So, I want to ask are you listening to your heart and singing your song out loud so the world can hear you? or will you continue to live your life on mute?  We commit to all the roles in our lives all the must do’s and the things we should do but what about what you are destined to do.  What if you decided that you no longer are interested in living up to the standards of society of what is the right way or what is the wrong way. What if we just did what we felt in hearts and begin to listen our inner voice. This does not mean you will abandon all your responsibilities this just simply means taking risk to do something a little different something for yourself.  Trusting that the voice within is there to guide you into your purpose, that voice within is our true nature of who we are and the things we desire. The titles behind our names, the high paying career, the house we live in, and the cars we drive is not who we are they are things in our possession. They all have an expiration date and so do we the difference is when they expire they will have already served their purpose but will you have served your purpose when your time come?

“I Hope You Dance and never lose your sense of wonder ”

Get inspired to live in your purpose to be inspired simply means to be in spirit, your purpose are the things that you love to do without any rewards just the act of being makes you happy. Your purpose makes other people happy and seeing others benefit from your contribution to the world brings you peace. If you are a writer be a writer, if you are singer sing your highest ballads, whatever you are in your heart be it, bring it to life. Do not allow being a parent to be an excuse, being a wife, or having a degree stop you from following the beat of your heart. If you must dance to the beat until you have found the words I hope you will dance with passion and excited about the song in your heart that brings you joy and makes you feel alive. The only thing you will regret more than failure is never listening to your heart and following your true desires, living outside of your true self simply means living for others.  Sing like no one else is listening and dance like no one else is watching be fearless and free to live the life you were created to live.

Transformation Of The Mind Tuesday- Bloom Where You Are Planted

There is no better time than right now , there are no limits  to living in your purpose. you just have to make the choice to live how you feel, be true to  who you are ,and believe that you are worthy and capable of doing great things. Lose the labels and connect to your true desires and move forward on a mission of purpose. 

A Beautiful Obstacle Course

Fear has two meanings, “forget everything and run, or face everything and rise “ultimately the choice is ours to make. Fear is just an illusion it is not real, it is a product of thoughts we create, danger is very real but fear is a choice.  To fear is one of the most defeating choices in life why? living in fear can rob you of the life you deserve, living in your purpose and even finding true love, fear is one of the main reason for some of our failed experiences in life. Our thoughts are the blue print of our life, the things that we choose to hold on to or dwell on because of what we experienced creates a false perception in other words known as fear.  When we hold on to the hurt and pain eventually we build a massive gate around us in efforts to avoid feeling the same as you did in the past. whether is was a past relationship that did not end well, or from a traumatic experience you may have endured or witnessed as a child it is a limiting factor in everyone’s life at one point or another.

We must to be willing to communicate the pain we felt and have spent our entire lives reliving and experiencing as if it is still happening the more we share the more we heal. Very often the lack of self-love and awareness can easily be one of many the reasons someone will find comfort in being a victim to their circumstances or even worse taking responsibility for the things they had no control of.  With that they spend their whole lives secured and safe always reliving and trying to protect their selves from a memory. On the other hand, you have people that are clear on the things they do not want for their lives, but instead of focusing on the things they desire to manifest they focus on being in fear of the things they do not want to come to life. My grand aunt I were having a conversation about life in general and she said something that was so key she said, “all my life all the things I said I did not want is all the things I ended up having or doing.” My aunt is now Seventy- years old and I said to her” you experienced all the things you did not want because you gave your life to fear”. Because she kept on feeding her biggest fears with energy and focus they grew bigger and by the time she looked up it was now her reality.

I shared this today to say do not let another five or better yet no another minute go past in your life with fear being in charge. It is never too late to detach from the things you already know and have   and recreate your whole life just by simply changing your thoughts. Changing your perspective of life opens the door to freedom, being free from the past, and present experiences learning to see the necessity behind all our experiences whether good or trying. The more we able to smile through our storms with confidence and faith that you are worthy of all things that are beautiful but first accept that you must to go through some rough battles. while going through them condition your mind to the fact that this is not meant to break you this was meant to prepare you for the next level in your life. Everything in our lives happen in the order it is suppose we just have to role with the punches and be aware of the thoughts we create in our minds during the process. If you want good results think only about the good and not focus on all the things that could go wrong because of fear our negative imaginary limit.

“everything you want is on the other side of fear ”

Filtering Out Your Space

We cannot allow anyone to have the power to take our right of being open to endlessly  possibilities.  No matter how many times you fall mistakes are meant to happen lessons are meant to be learned. Your past errors and trials do not define you and we must be intentional about not allowing the words of others to  keep us down our in the past.

Fall In Love With Life

“Enjoy this moment this moment is your precious life.” “Money will never be as precious as this one life we live.” “The most precious gift of life is to be alive.” life can be very unpredictable one minute you’re here the next minute you are gone, one minute you're up the next you are down. Our life can literally change in the blink of an eye sometimes for the best, sometimes the unexpected takes place in our darkest moments. The only thing you can be sure about is that life is always going to take its natural course, so instead of trying to change it or get upset about it lets try embracing life with open arms and a smile.  No matter what is going on the key is to live never let the cares or troubles of this world take you down or make you frown, try not to take life so personal. Always remember you are not the only one that is going through stuff you are not the only one experiencing a loss, everyday someone else is going through the same or worse. Life does not happen to us it happens for us, for every time we go through something we learn something new about ourselves we develop a new skill, we learn our strengths and focus on growing from our experiences.

“Love The Life You Live And Create The Life You Desire ”

There was a time when whenever I went through a tough time or an unexpected series of events I would get so upset that I would say things like “story of my life, why me, I have no luck” and so forth. The more I did that the longer the problem seemed lingere, the more I complained the harder it seemed to get, the more I kept it to myself I felt as if I was suffocating with anxiety, doubt and fear. It is always easy to take that route but understand that the problem never goes away when you pout or cry and instead of living in gratitude we begin to only exist letting life get the best of us, when really, we are created to make the best out of life. The next time life starts to happen guess what love it anyhow embrace it, the more you live the more you learn is the more you grow. Instead of asking why me the next time just say thank you God for what I am about to receive, for the lessons that I am about to learn and the blessings that will flow. Instead of having day filled with complaints and worries choose to have a day filled with joy, gratitude and become solution oriented. Fall in love with your life and all the beauty of it do not wait for money or material things to make you happy be unapologetic about your happiness on purpose.