Transformation Of The Mind Tuesday - Lose Ego & choose Peace

The moment we were born we were born with the nature to be extraordinary, but as time passes during  our growing stages we are molded by people's opinions, thoughts , and belief system. As a result of that  we develop an ego filled with pride, and is defined by doing things based on what everyone else's beliefs are  and what is  pleasing to everyone  other than ourselves. When you have the opportunity to choose between what your ego needs choose what your mind and your soul needs  which is peace and the rest will follow naturally. 

Focus On Who You Are Being

“Spread Love Where Ever You Go..Let No One Ever Come To You Without Leaving Happier.”

This morning I woke up with butterflies in my stomach and joy in my heart not because I am where I want to be ,and not because I won a million dollars, but simply because I was able to open my eyes to another day. I am blessed with another day to spread love, to smile and spread health and wellness to everyone. Very Often people create this false reality to believe that your smile or your joy is tied to a  material thing or financial change is the responsible for your happiness.. For me my smile and joy are attached to my spirit of gratitude for all that God is doing in my life and who I get to be for others. My joy has nothing to do with me but everything to do with the people that are looking to change and heal their minds, my joy comes from being A light for others. Being able to witness other people’s joy of winning or accomplishing something great for them selves whether it is a  minor or major  accomplishment  gives me joy. Being in service for others in need opens other doors of amazing changes in our life, once we are willing to be  selfless, to love others openly despite of who they are. When I was working with Anne God rest her soul one of her church sisters would come by to give her communion because she was unable to due to her failing health. The thing that always stood out to me was that  before she left she would always say i love you .We did not know each other prior to that or have any blood relation but she was the perfect example of a woman that understand the mission of life and that her purpose was bigger than just herself. The intention of her words was to spread love and kindness in the world she was not moved by how different we were she was moved by the fact we are all  apart of God's creation. Every time she said it I knew she meant every letter in each word ,and those few words and her actions left me feeling loved. We Should all be committed to  practice leaving everyone we come across feeling loved ,and  we must represent the change we want to see in the world.

We are all God’s children and we should all spread messages  of love, practice Loving others not only because of blood relation, friendship, or intimate relationships. Everyone needs love everyone could use an act of kindness every day. There is enough negativity in the world be one out of the many to set your intentions on not only making your self happy but being a blessing for others. You never know just how much of a difference that act of kindness and love can make a in one’s life. Always remember it is not always who you help will help you but, by your acts of kindness and love that these things will back to you when you least expect it and more than you expected it to be . I challenge you all including myself that the next time you see someone that may appear to be angry and not welcoming share a smile or start a conversation. Share a positive message with them chances are they needed it, it is very easy to avoid or prejudge someone that does not appear to be approachable that’s okay. Before we think to judge chose to have compassion and understanding for their struggles we do not know of .We never know what kind of day a person is having and what’s going on in their life at the moment , a lot of the times some people have no one to talk or if they do they may not be a positive circle of influence. Be a light for others love on a stranger not physically touching them but with your energy and spirit that could change some one’s mood for the whole day possibly their whole life.“Your gifts are not about you, your leader ship is not about you, your purpose is not about you“. A life of significance is a bout serving those who need your gifts, your leadership , and your purpose.

Promising Affirmations

I am brave
I am free
I am a conqueror
I am grateful
I am love
I am a finisher
I am beautiful
I am unique
I am a blessed
I am unstoppable
I am a leader
I am a boss of my own empire
I am smart
I am always evolving
I am always learning
I am fearless
I am full of life
I am strong
I am determined
I am intentional
I am a winner
I am triumphant
I am adventurous
I am committed
I am extraordinary
I am creating my best life right now I am aware of life’s challenges, I am ready and willing to take them on.I am whole there is no task too hard for me to complete. I will always give a hundred percent to the goal I set out to accomplish. I have no time to waste because my time is precious and very short. I will not take the people in my life, the places I go to, the experiences I gain for granted. I will remain in purpose on purpose. I am aware that my life has already been written, I am on a journey to receive what God has already promised to me. I will be kind and loving to everyone I meet always. I will live a full life, filled with love and harmony , love everyone as i love myself. I matter who i become will be greater  and I am filled with pure  joy and gratitude

Love & Unity

Love is key  

Love is kind 

Gentle and patient 

Today i am sharing the importance  of loving everyone as we love ourselves and erasing the thought that we are all seperate  people. We are all equally created and different  in our own unique way. Focus on what connects us than what separates us and come togther in unity, we are equal and greater together.

Giving Up Control

“Loss of control is always the source of fear, and it is also however always the source of change”. At one point or another in everyone’s life It is safe to say that we all have made plans and acted against what we feel deep inside. It is the after outcome that leaves us saying “if I would have followed my instincts I would have never gotten into this mess”. Even after experiencing it once we unconsciously continue to make choices against our better judgement.  We even begin to ask ourselves questions like “why I always do this” or telling ourselves “if you just follow your first gut feeling you never go wrong”. During being frustrated one thing is always accurate that unconsciously we are in agreeance that it is best to listen to our inner guiding spirit but in our conscious state of wanting to be in control we go against ourselves. This does not make us bad people we are just people taught to be in control of life even though we cannot predict what will happen next or undo anything that we have done.

 What if we focused on not being in control of anything and begin focusing on going with the flow of life, allowing the higher power to guide us and begin to trust our guiding spirit. I wrote this message down two days ago from an audio I was listening to by Dr. Wayne Dyer. The message was “flexibility is the companion of life and being hard is the companion of death “. When I heard that message I had a moment of instant self-check because, I will consider myself to be a perfectionist at times especially with the things that are extremely important to me.  I am also that way with time I like to be on time and in order, this can be a good thing and a bad thing at the same time. It is a bad thing because it gives us a sense of overseeing time and how things are supposed to go forgetting that things can and will happen to prevent or delay this process.This Is Usually when  i struggle with accepting it and i get a little bent out of shape by choice because I know that no matter how much I plan God will always have his way. The times that I do not have a plan all I have is a desire, clear intentions and committed my plans to God and allow him to guide me is when I am not in control and things just flowed naturally. I am trusting the fact that I have what it takes and I believe in the plans of the universe for me.

“Your Faith Can Move Mountains & Your doubt Can Create Them”

I choose to enjoy living the great mystery, is the first verse in my new book and I am sharing it with you all to encourage you to practice flexibility. We cannot claim to be living if we are unable to flow, instead of us planting our feet in sinking sands and there is no way out. We must set our intentions on flowing, making the most of every delay, every step-in progress and lastly during major changes in one’s life. The less we fight the process of what needs to happen the closer we get to becoming the person we need to become trust your guiding spirit, have endless faith. See the beauty in everything and everyone and be grateful for it all if we spend time working on our problems internally the stronger our connection with the universe becomes, the deeper the connection the more present and aware we become. When we have grasped that concept trusting and flowing becomes a way of life. The next time you feel like you are losing control I want you to embrace it communicate with your soul and say” I choose to enjoy living the great mystery”. I do not need to know it all and I trust my guiding spirit and not my belief system that requires me to be in control. When I am in control I sink in frustrations when I am in alignment I flow in manifestation.