“High performers are not born they are conditioned that way by habit.” – Brendon Burchard if someone were to ask you to do you consider yourself to be a high performer what would be your response? Reflecting back on your life and the choices made in the past how would you rate your energy or efforts on a scale of 1-10? What you put in is what you receive in return, what is a high performer?  A high performer is one that decides that they want to be the best at what they are doing. I am firm believer in the power of alignment and focus energy flows where we focus and how we are showing up in one area of our life is how we are showing up in all areas of our life weather we believe it or not. In my experience and observation I have learned that many will miss use the power of choice to fit their desire to be comfortable rather challenged ,meaning that they  invest more time in  the areas that they consider to be there strong suites and avoid the areas in which they consider to be there weakness or in other words the area in which they struggle.  The truth is every area in our life has its own added benefits and purpose and it is our responsibility to be mindful of our attitude, focus and, effort we are putting out daily. Creating and maintaining balance in our life between our spiritual life, work, family, goals, parenting, dating, and marriage can feel like the most difficult thing to master, but just because it appears to be difficult it does not make it impossible. It comes down to a number of things like prioritizing and staying connected and true to our core values and beliefs once we are clear and grounded in that it becomes easier to master discipline to not compromise on those things.

“I do not have time “the number one reason for many why creating balance to make room to thrive in our daily endeavors. The question is what are some of the things that you are spending more time doing that is not in alignment with your goals, or compliment your core values? How much of yourself are you investing in doing for everyone aside from who you are being for yourself?   what are you willing to give up in order to make time for what is important and the things that matter most to you?  The truth is not many are willing to give up on the things that have provided comfort for them , the things that gives them validation or acceptance from others , and doing things takes the focus off of what we know we  should be doing. The road to creating balance in our life and obtaining true fulfilling success is a challenging one and at some point, it can and will get lonely as it is personal so not everyone will be able accept or understand. If we are willing to change things will change, it begins with deciding to value you and working harder on yourself than you do anything else. One very important key to moving closer towards becoming a high performer in your life is to operate in complete gratitude for everything and everyone in every experience or encounter that we have each day. Making small but significant changes in our routine like replacing the thought of what we do not feel like doing today and replacing that with saying “I am grateful for the opportunity to make progress today. replacing the claims that today is a bad day to “today was a day filled with challenges and lessons. Making these simple but powerful adjustments really changes our attitude and replacing complaints with gratitude has the power to shift our energy and promote massive action.

The ability to be a high performer is a skill that we all possess deep within us, the moment we replace our fears with choosing unbounded faith there is nothing that we cannot get through. Doing the bear minimum is simply not enough our life is filled with great potential and possibilities that requires us to put our best foot forward. Showing up even when we do not feel like it is key to being disciplined in not only our planning but in our actions. It is okay to know what want and to say what we want but it is very important that we pray, plan, and act in order to get one step closer each day to achieving our goals. A dream is just a dream if we are not actively pursuing it, Life and no one owes us anything we owe it to ourselves to go after everything that is ours. In becoming a high performer, I want to encourage you guys to detach from the results that we receive whether they are good are bad because everything is temporary, stay connected to your why and remember that life is happening for us if we allow it to. in everything that you do practice doing it with love , gratitude and high energy, no matter what it is or where you are in life choosing to operate from a space of love and having gratitude for everything helps to create momentum for us. Be empowered daily by surprising yourself with your power and magic to not just exist but to live fully and unapologetically every day of your life. “I am a high performer because I make a commitment to do and be my best self each day and nothing less.