“Our words have power they impact others, but they also impact us.” Most times we more mindful of the words we use when we have dialogue with our peers but are, we mindful of the dialogue we are having with ourselves. The reality is our own words has and will continue to have an impact on how we are showing up in our life. This could be a good or bad thing depending on the language we are using when we think about who we are and how we are operating daily. Labeling ourselves is a very common behavior especially when we make mistakes or when we find ourselves in situations that are unexpected but created through our choices. We label ourselves with limiting statements such as, I am a failure, I am clumsy, I cannot do anything right, I am not creative, I am not good at multitasking, I am not organized, and the list goes on. We must learn the difference in what we do and who we are, we are not our mistakes. Failing at a first attempt does not make you a failure the goal is to never give up and move on without creating conflict in within ourselves. The love we expect from others we must be able to provide that for ourselves freely, and the first step begins with forgiving ourselves and having compassion with ourselves.

Life is not always a smooth ship to sail and we all will experience some bumps and bruises along the way, what matters most is how we recover and what we take from each experience. It takes courage to step out in faith so everything we experience after is a bonus accessory that we must always look to see the blessing in everything. The more energy we waste using our words against ourselves the less capable we are of moving forward. The greatest task and effective method to practice is self-talk and prayer, taking all our battles to God first the empowering ourselves through our words is key. The words we use fuels us with energy and hope that even through our current storms we still hold the key to our success in life and in everything that we do. The thigs that we find most challenging can be accomplished with a decision and change of our mindset. Instead saying we cannot do let us practice saying I cannot afford to do the things that I see as a challenge because I understand that it adds value to my life. Everything we do in life is designed to teach us something about ourselves and life in general, being mindful of how we react and the stories we create about ourselves is important.

I dare you to change your language and empower yourself even when no one is willing to. I am in charge of the thoughts I have and the stories I create about myself. I will speak life, love and positivity in my life. I am not limited by my circumstances or my failed attempts, I am a winner because I commit, and I never give up. I am living and leading by example by living in my truth. I am amazing flaws and all, I am aware of my weaknesses, I am willing to work on them and take on the things that I see as a challenge. I am walking in faith and trusting that I have what it takes to walk in my purpose and be extraordinary at everything I put my mind to. I am not only here to exists I was created to live life to the fullest doing what I love and loving the life I live. We have no more time left to waste in negativity and mediocrity, let us invest our time wisely in not only impacting others in a positive way but also impacting ourselves with power and passion for life. You have the ability to change the ending to the story you once saw as a dead end with no possibilities for growth or success, always keep in mind that r success and happiness begins in the mind. It begins with us believing that we already are the things we desire and understand that we are on a journey to claim what is ours.