Fear has two meanings, “forget everything and run, or face everything and rise “ultimately the choice is ours to make. Fear is just an illusion it is not real, it is a product of thoughts we create, danger is very real but fear is a choice.  To fear is one of the most defeating choices in life why? living in fear can rob you of the life you deserve, living in your purpose and even finding true love, fear is one of the main reason for some of our failed experiences in life. Our thoughts are the blue print of our life, the things that we choose to hold on to or dwell on because of what we experienced creates a false perception in other words known as fear.  When we hold on to the hurt and pain eventually we build a massive gate around us in efforts to avoid feeling the same as you did in the past. whether is was a past relationship that did not end well, or from a traumatic experience you may have endured or witnessed as a child it is a limiting factor in everyone’s life at one point or another.

We must to be willing to communicate the pain we felt and have spent our entire lives reliving and experiencing as if it is still happening the more we share the more we heal. Very often the lack of self-love and awareness can easily be one of many the reasons someone will find comfort in being a victim to their circumstances or even worse taking responsibility for the things they had no control of.  With that they spend their whole lives secured and safe always reliving and trying to protect their selves from a memory. On the other hand, you have people that are clear on the things they do not want for their lives, but instead of focusing on the things they desire to manifest they focus on being in fear of the things they do not want to come to life. My grand aunt I were having a conversation about life in general and she said something that was so key she said, “all my life all the things I said I did not want is all the things I ended up having or doing.” My aunt is now Seventy- years old and I said to her” you experienced all the things you did not want because you gave your life to fear”. Because she kept on feeding her biggest fears with energy and focus they grew bigger and by the time she looked up it was now her reality.

I shared this today to say do not let another five or better yet no another minute go past in your life with fear being in charge. It is never too late to detach from the things you already know and have   and recreate your whole life just by simply changing your thoughts. Changing your perspective of life opens the door to freedom, being free from the past, and present experiences learning to see the necessity behind all our experiences whether good or trying. The more we able to smile through our storms with confidence and faith that you are worthy of all things that are beautiful but first accept that you must to go through some rough battles. while going through them condition your mind to the fact that this is not meant to break you this was meant to prepare you for the next level in your life. Everything in our lives happen in the order it is suppose we just have to role with the punches and be aware of the thoughts we create in our minds during the process. If you want good results think only about the good and not focus on all the things that could go wrong because of fear our negative imaginary limit.