The moment we were born we were born with the nature to be extraordinary, but as time passes during  our growing stages we are molded by people's opinions, thoughts , and belief system. As a result of that  we develop an ego filled with pride, and is defined by doing things based on what everyone else's beliefs are  and what is  pleasing to everyone  other than ourselves. When you have the opportunity to choose between what your ego needs choose what your mind and your soul needs  which is peace and the rest will follow naturally.