Have you ever had one of those days or a weekend where you had the opportunity to be in a room filled other amazing successful individuals that were there to just pour into you? This weekend was one of those moments for me there was so much knowledge and love being spread it is impossible to say I did not feel fired up and excited all over again. I want to share a few points that were shared with us and I hope that everyone can relate to these basic key points to success. “learn from others but stay in your lane “I can completely relate to this statement because I love to listen to others and study others journey to success and in the past whenever I learned something new I would quickly try to use it and stop what I was doing. I had to learn that it is not about doing what they do it is simply for us to listen be inspired and fashion in our own magic. No one can do what others do and still be them the key is to develop more skills learn new things but never stop being you or stop doing what you are doing. We must remind ourselves that it is not they are better than us they are who they are, and we are who we are uniquely different.

“Give your attention to one thing at a time will full presence” this was my second take away this was also confirmation for me, this was a topic in a previous blog of mines. It is very important to be present in everything we are doing because the only way to be able to set our intentions and meet our expectations is if we are giving a hundred percent effort to the task at hand. if we are giving half we can only expect to have a half result and there is no way we can say something is not working for us if we have not truly given it a hundred percent effort. Doing the action and not being fully present is just busy work and routine we are not being productive or focused.  We must set the boundaries within ourselves and be disciplined in our mind and actions, when it is relaxing time we are in full relax mode as it is needed and necessary. When it is family time we want to make sure we are giving our full attention to our loved ones they need this from us and it is also beneficial to us because majority of the time they are our support system. Just like we expect them to be there for us we have be able to be present for them as well.

“Never stand still for someone else’s comfort some people just won’t show up for themselves and that’s just their choice, don’t postpone your growth “. Last point and the most important one to take on is understanding that not everyone has the courage to follow their dreams and go after what they desire and deserve. That is ok for them, but it is not for us to sit and wait for them to recognize their value our job is to continue focus on our self-growth we can pray for them along the way. We cannot allow other peoples limited mindset to keep us in a limited space we were created to fly without wings. We can be anything we desire once we make the choice to change our perspective on life, think big and we must believe that we can. This weekend was a reminder of how amazing we all are and how much power we hold if we just give in to our uniqueness, not let other people’s words or our circumstances discourage. Remember life is always happening but our dreams don’t come to life unless we start working harder on ourselves than we do anything else in this world. Be courageous and bold enough to go get what is yours we don’t need more time we just need to use our time to focus on what is important.