The things that we fear the most and spend a lot of our time avoiding are usually always those very things that we needed to elevate. I always identified as a person that works well under pressure, stress, or time sensitive situations, why because one of my fears is not completing anything that I begin.  I do not believe that a man or woman can truly know if something was for them if whenever adversity is present their first thought is to forfeit.  Everything we set out to take on we must be prepared for what adventures are along that route, including that one big obstacle we all face. The challenge of letting go of the need for approval of our family and friends and not knowing when to cut ties when it is necessary.  We all came into this world alone therefore we should embrace the beauty of finding our purpose on a one man/woman journey.

We may seem to be alone physically but when we invest time into being spiritually grounded to feel and understand God’s love and purpose for our life, the healing and great transformation can take place.  The problem Is we miss the bigger picture by focusing too much on people, expecting too much at the expense of your peace. There is a little saying that goes “a promise is a comfort to a fool, and if a person shows you their true colors believe them.” The more time we invest connecting spiritually to our source the less we seek and expect from people that are not capable of being a reliable source of motivation or moral support.  We do not lack or need for anything everything we need is already within us, the only way to access this is by committing to being one with God.  Allowing him to guide you and grant you all that you need to excel in all areas of your life with more than we expect but what we deserve.  

When everything and everyone will fail us God will never leave or forsake us, he is always working over time to protect and bless you. The secret is you must be open and ready to receive what you have been praying for. Understand that everything and everyone has a season and in the season of your break through arriving you will lose a lot of people.  I recently just experienced a great shift in my family dynamics that is painful but never the less necessary and a great eye opener.  I encourage everyone reading today to not lose who you are trying to fit in with inauthentic people. Stop expecting more from others that are incapable of being whole for themselves, it is impossible to expect anything real from individuals who are unable to live in their truth and purpose.  Doing this will always bring great frustration and disappointment always remember, the way people treat others is just a reflection of their own insecurities and how they feel about themselves. It is not about you so refrain from taking it personal, we have a great friend within ourselves invest your time wisely getting to know him and allow him to guide our steps while the law of attraction works in your favor.