It is very easy to get caught up in complaining and only focusing on all the flaws and things we expect from the people present in our lives instead seeing what a blessing they are.  Did you know that we can create anything we want for our lives? often I always hear people and even in my own experience feeling defeated or discouraged because they feel like the black sheep of their family, or the misunderstood friend.  New solves all and if you are not doing anything to change the things that you do not like then you become apart of the problem.  It is possible to create family like bonds with people you are not biologically related to, it is possible to create a sisterhood, or brotherhood with someone that is not your biological brother or sister.  The truth is no one owes us anything and no one is obligated to do anything for us, we can hope for the best but always be open to all possibilities and be ready to accept and move forward.

When we make the decision to get started on our journey history has proven that in the beginning most of the time   family and close friends are some of the last people to join you or support you.  If we can condition our mind to that simple fact the easier it becomes to lose that excuse of false expectations. These false expectations and responsibilities we assign to people that did not ask for it is the number one dream killer. We allow ourselves to feel disappointed and give ourselves permission to quit because we do not have the support we desire and from the people we would love to be apart. What you do is your choice and what you do not do is also your choice, the why’s are just to validate our lack of self-belief by blaming it on others.  Everyone was assigned a purpose the moment we were born which will only manifest when we put in the work to create it.

 Complaining and dwelling is simply a waste of time and we are only doing ourselves a disservice, everyone will not understand or receive your vision until you are brave enough to understand that your mission and true purpose is up to you to create. No one’s opinion or doubt matters because if you are willing to remain committed   and consistent any and everything is possible. Always remember that we have the power to create to win or complain and fail, focus only on the things we can control and learn from the things we cannot.  The less energy we waste on discouraging thoughts the more energy we have to invest into what is important. I want everyone reading today to ask yourself how important your purpose is and what are you willing to sacrifice to attain it or are you willing to sacrifice your vision seeking validation.  Go out each day on a mission to create, live, love, and glow unapologetically. Your purpose is your peace live in the moment and stand confident in what you believe in.