Is it possible to have love and success all together?  I strongly believe that we are all capable of having success in all areas of our life.  It is attainable if you invest time in becoming successful in self-love, self-care, and committing to your mind body and spirit. In our world today, most people have lost the true essence of what is important and the key to creating the life we truly desire. What has happened is we have been taught that to live a successful life means to chase more, chasing the big careers, degrees, and titles.  The more we chase things the more we lose our essence, our true value are lost and having becomes more important that being the things we possess is what defines us. The more money you have does not buy you happiness, does grant you peace, and it most definitely does not buy you love.  Some of the richest people in the world have everything they could ever want but the things they truly desire seems nonexistent.

The goal in life for everyone should be to be truly happy with you and falling in love with a purpose and sharing it with the world.  The secret to having success and love is when two whole individuals come together and create a new life together supporting each other on their visions for life. When it comes to love and success most people believe they must choose one or the other.  Other times people are given an ultimatum by the person they are with to choose between your dreams or them.  We should never have to lose ourselves to keep a relationship, doing that will always only leave us filled with resentment and regret.  If the person you are with is unable to stand next to you as your equal partner in life without feeling intimidated by your dreams and drive for life then that may not be the person for you.  There are times where balancing a career and a love life can be challenging if you are unable to prioritize your time that benefits your career and personal life.

The key to prioritizing your time is being completely focus and engaged in each area a hundred percent when it is time to work you are fully invested in work. When you are relaxing and having quality time your partner be a hundred percent invested in that moment with each other. Also make sure to be in tuned with what is going on with each other in career, how they are feeling and how can you be involved being invested in their vision as well. I absolutely love and cherish the relationship that my husband and I have created being able to work together and support each other and still maintain a balance between our personal life. We understand that we are together as two equally whole individuals creating a life together, being invested in making sure we both have time to take care of ourselves first.  To be able to continue to give love and support to each other and everyone else in our lives. I advise everyone to never get to stuck on what the world says a happy relationship or a successful life should look like.  True success comes from within when what you can create, and who you are being brings you complete fulfillment and joy. Be You, love freely, and dream unapologetically.